Shower Epiphany: Grow within rather than build without

Sometimes we are disappointed in people not because we found a way to see them as who they are and to accept them as is, but because they somehow represent something to us that often times they do not know of, we can not comprehend, nor can we begin to imagine how this it came to be. Once we realize what they mean to us and who they really are we can take those often times unjust and overwhelming expectations from their shoulders and begin to understand what we lack and how we can make ourselves whole rather than augment ourselves with others.